Wednesday, August 9, 2006

The Long Run! Symbolic Meaning?

 



My day began in the usual way..logged onto AOL , reading my mail, waiting for the update from Tim Wooley's site for results of Barbaro's cast change yesterday. I began to increasingly consider about what is driving the countless number of people who are sitting right along side me, somewhere on the Internet, waiting and wondering and praying that all is OK, and that we will have another "another comfortable night" message, along with a positive report from New Bolton Center.

And I think to myself... do people really "get it"? Do folks really understand what is beyond the updates and the hats and t- shirts that we purchase, and the inordinate number of online groups that have formed who "meet" to talk about Barbaro, the amazing number of websites that have gone up, not only for newsworthy events but to help raise funds for favorite horse charities such as  Penn Veterinary Medicine :  Alumni & Friends :  Alumni Giving .

The message which New Bolton Center posts on their site is extremely clear about their purpose for fund raising, particularly at this time,"Gifts made to the New Bolton Fund will go directly to improving the equipment and services of the New Bolton Center, for treating animals like Barbaro - and countless others - in their times of need" It speaks right to the heart of all horse lovers all over the world.

But it is not just that horse lovers rally around the progress of our Kentucky Derby winner who was injured so tragically at the Preakness, dissolving our hopes of having a Triple Crown winner into oblivion. There is much more to this phenomenon that must be capturing our hearts and thoughts.

Yes, we are accused of being "Barbaromaniacs," (a new term that has been coined, which we actually happen to love as it fits us to a "T)." We are accused of anthropomorphizing to the extreme. We are accused of being fixated on the progress of this horse, but WHY are we doing this? What is causing this apparent compulsion?

Perhaps in the world of today, we are so in need of a "hero" that embodies the true meaning of the word.   This horse, Barbaro, fits the bill. His courage, his will to survive in spite of the greatest odds against it, his attitude, his willingness to cooperate with his caretakers speaks to us on a very deep and unconscious level. He has become a powerful icon of "Hero."  His veterinary staff, his owners, his trainer and his jockey's hard work, interweave 'iconically' with this magical horse's attitude, which blends love, devotion and the grinding day to day care that they are providing, into a tapestry of pure courage.

Anyone can rally in a moment of crisis. Most of us are "crisis" driven, actually, and take action when a crisis presents itself. It is the day to day, "carrying water and chopping wood" rituals that keeps the flame of hope alive, not only in the case of Barbaro and his recovery, but any cause that is sufficiently powerful to move our hearts.

So let's not throw the baby out with the bath water, and focus only on Barbaro's medical progress, but see the bigger picture of what is involved here. A "hero" is made, not born. We can learn a lot about the parts of us that are "heroic."

We learn a lot about our ability to stay with a cause that is important to us, and the work that it takes to ride with that cause, no matter what. We set an intention and follow our hearts which is the easy part. The hard part is the often dull and boring times, to keep our goal in sight.

How do you keep your heart open? Do you have a "hero"? Have you found that "hero" inside yourself?

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

I HAVE BEEN WAITING SINCE LAST NIGHT TO GET A REPORT ON OUR  HERO BARBARO. SO HAPPY WHEN THE CAST CHANGED WENT SO WELL AND LIKE DR D. SAID HIS IS A SMART HORSE. WE WILL KEEP PRAY'S GOING AND CANDLES LITE FOR AS LONG AS IT TAKES TO HEAL HIM AND HE  WILL BE ABLE TO WALK OUT TO THE FRESH AIR AND PASTURES.
                BETTY

Anonymous said...

Very well said!  :)  

Anonymous said...

Horses have a magical draw to us females...As a child, we want nothing more than to partner with one of these big bold animals.  Someone like Barbaro, gives those who always wanted that relationship a means to have a face to place with that need and those who have lost that relationship a rememberance of what was.

There is nothing more gratifying than beating the odds.  Years ago I had a navicular gelding who is now legend because it didn't stop him.  Even after being navicular for 14 years (He was then 24), he could pick up an extended trot and never waiver.  We drove the dressage trainers at our barn crazy because he shouldn't have been able to do that!  

Beating the odds is what we are hoping and praying happens for Barbaro.  Being able to put that "heart" into progeny and MAYBE another Derby winner or even Triple Crown winner.

Barbaro, we wish you the BEST!

Anonymous said...

I am so grateful for your entry.
I (a grateful Barbaromaniac)also wait for my AOL alerts every morning waiting in prayerful anticipation for good news on our beloved Barbaro.
You are so right.
There are so many dimensions to this situation.
You spoke to something deep down inside of me with "Have you found that "hero" inside yourself? "
I have always been able to (crisis orientated)jump in and try and save the day whether it be community,politcal or church situations ---revamping ,calling in favors,animal rescues ,senior rescues,fsmliy rescues,etc.etc.etc.
But when it comes to taking care of  myself I fall desperately short.
It seems by concentrating on everything else ,I don't have to focus on changing me where needed.
I know what's needed ,but I don't do it.
This beautiful creature has shown so much courage and wisdom, for as much as all the wonderful people around him have done for his recovery it's that hero spirit way down deep inside of Barbaro that is overcoming all odds.
I have and will continue to learn a great deal about myself through this Brave and Magnificent horse.
Thank You,
With much love and prayers to you all,
Robin(Baltimore MD-- 15 minutes away from Pimlico Racetrack)


Anonymous said...

Let's continue to pray tor Barbaro. He has already overcome huge obstacles that no one thought it was possible for him to do. But he has shown incredible spirit, and determination to fight back from this terrible accident. As dedicated as some of us are, of keeping up with all the latest updates on his condition, there are many who don't even recognize his name. But for those of us that love him, we will never give up supporting him. I know he will continue to beat all odds. Vicki Jasch

Anonymous said...

Barbaro represents a lot of hopes and dreams and prayers. It has gomne beyond the one horse; it reaches to the depths of our humanity, and to the lessons we need to learn in this lifetime. As goes Barbaro, so goes our hearts.
Sandy

Anonymous said...

Oh, this article was TRULY well written and very well explains the love found in the hearts of the many lovers and fans of this horse. Not just love but a commitment to stick together, through good times and bad times.


This was an EXCELLENT article and I would highly recommend it be shard with as many people as possible!


Thanks!

Anonymous said...

I WAS JUST READING WHERE THEY POSTED A COP AT NBC AND I ASK WHY AND THEY SAID TO KEEP FANS OUT.
BETTY

Anonymous said...

There is a "Barbaro" inside of all of us... we just have to find it.  Through personal struggles be it a divorce, a death of a beloved family member or pet... it's there.  But we have to CHOOSE to find it, harness it, and use it to our own benefit.

For me, it was running a marathon (talk about a LONG run!)... 45 years old, newly divorced and on my own for the first time in my life, I trained for a year to run the 1996 Columbus Marathon.  It was a test of my inner strength and my physical strength.

"If I could survive on my own a year AND finish that 26.2 mile marathon I was going to make it" on my own.  Did I ever want to quit?  Oh yeah.  But we, as humans, have to force ourselves to forge ahead.

Barbaro, on the other hand, doesn't seem to have given a thought to not making it through this time, nor have his trainers, doctors, etc.  HURRAY FOR THEM!

Why do we love him?  He's a HERO... he's coming through the worst possible scenario... with a horsey smile on his face.  He still sees the joy in life... you can see it in his pictures.  :)

Anonymous said...

Interesting.

Krissy
http://journals.aol.com/fisherkristina/SometimesIThink

Anonymous said...

I am an animal lover and love horses, and I am happy that they are working so hard on Barbaro.  Yes, he is a symbol.  Wouldn't it be nice if people worried about each other as much as we often due about animals?

Found you thru CarnivAOL.

be well,
Dawn

Anonymous said...

comment to princesssaurora

I feel that animals can teach us how to love one another unconditionally, as we learn to love them that way. This horse has brought thousands of folks together in love, not only toward Barbaro, but to each other.  Thank you for your comment.

Jo

Anonymous said...

We can learn much from the animal kingdom. I wish we had more human heroes. Found you through CarnivAOL.
Dianna
http://journals.aol.com/sazzylilsmartazz/DiannasMindlessMusings/